Worship

The worshipping life of the parish

Worship at St Mary’s and St Matthew’s

Rooted in the Catholic tradition of the Church of England, our worship brings together scripture, sacrament, beauty, reverence and a warm welcome for all.

“O worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness.” — Psalm 96.9

Come and worship

A place to encounter God

Whether you are new to church, returning after many years or a lifelong Christian, you are welcome to share in the prayer and sacramental life of the parish.

The Lord’s Day

Sunday worship

Sunday is the heart of our common life, when the parish gathers to hear God’s word, celebrate the Holy Eucharist and offer praise and prayer.

Parish Mass

09:30St Matthew’s, Ashford
11:00St Mary the Virgin, Stanwell

A joyful and reverent celebration of the Mass with scripture, preaching, prayer, music and Holy Communion at the centre of parish life.

What to expect

Parish Mass usually lasts about an hour. We gather to hear God’s word, offer the Church’s prayer and celebrate the Holy Eucharist, in which Christ feeds his people with his Body and Blood in Holy Communion.

The service moves from the Liturgy of the Word—Bible readings, a sermon, the Creed and prayers—to the Liturgy of the Sacrament at the altar. Hymns, ceremonial and periods of silence help us worship with heart, mind and body.

The congregation stands, sits and may kneel at different points, but simply follow what feels comfortable. Children are warmly welcome. Incense is reserved for occasional Solemn High Masses rather than the ordinary weekly Parish Mass.

If you are unsure whether to receive Holy Communion, you are welcome to speak with the priest. You may also come to the altar for a blessing.

Evensong and Benediction

18:30St Matthew’s, Ashford

Sung Evening Prayer in the tradition of the Church, followed by quiet adoration and Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament.

What to expect

This reflective service normally lasts around 45 minutes. Evensong is the Church’s evening prayer: psalms, canticles, scripture and intercession are offered as the day draws to a close.

At Benediction, the consecrated Host is placed in a monstrance and honoured as the sacramental presence of Christ. We adore Christ in silence and song before receiving his blessing with the Blessed Sacrament.

The service is sung and incense is used as a sign of prayer and honour. A service sheet provides everything needed, and visitors may participate as much or as little as they wish. Holy Communion is not distributed at this service.

Through the week

Weekday worship

The regular rhythm of Mass and prayer sustains the parish through the week and offers quieter opportunities to worship.

Morning Prayer

Monday–Friday at 08:30, online

Begin the day with psalms, scripture and the prayer of the Church.

Join online prayer

What to expect

Morning Prayer is part of the Daily Office—the Church’s regular pattern of prayer which sanctifies the hours of each day. It usually lasts about 20 minutes and includes psalms, scripture, canticles and intercessions.

By praying the Office together, we join our voices to the prayer of the whole Church. You may join the responses or simply listen; your camera and microphone can remain switched off.

Daily prayer

Quieter celebrations of Mass and regular prayer provide space to bring the needs of the parish and the world before God.

The Holy Rosary

Saturday at 09:00, online

Pray with Our Lady while reflecting on the joyful, luminous, sorrowful and glorious mysteries of Christ.

What to expect

The Rosary is a Christ-centred devotion prayed in the company of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Its repeated Our Fathers, Hail Marys and the Glory Be create a peaceful rhythm for meditating on the mysteries of Christ’s life, death and resurrection.

The online gathering usually lasts around 20–25 minutes. You do not need Rosary beads or previous experience: the leader announces each prayer, and you may respond aloud or listen prayerfully.

DayTime ServicePlace
Monday19:00Low Mass (Advent and Lent only)St Mary’s
Tuesday19:00Low MassSt Matthew’s
Wednesday12:30Low MassSt Mary’s
First Wednesday14:00Low MassRowland Hill Almshouse
Thursday09:15Low Mass (followed by coffee)St Matthew’s
Friday19:00Votive MassSt Mary’s
Monday–Friday08:30Morning PrayerOnline
Saturday09:00RosaryOnline
What to expect

Low Mass is the same full celebration of the Holy Eucharist offered in a simpler, quieter form. We hear God’s word, unite our prayers with Christ’s perfect offering and receive the grace of the Blessed Sacrament.

It normally lasts around 30 minutes and is mostly spoken, without hymns or incense. The smaller congregation, silence and unhurried atmosphere make it a peaceful way to begin or end the day. Visitors may sit, stand or kneel according to their needs.

Learn and pray

Worship resources

Explore the meaning of the Mass and find prayers for use at home, helping the worship of the Church to shape daily life.

Making the Most of the Mass

Discover the shape and meaning of the Mass, the purpose of its prayers and ceremonies, and practical ways to take part more deeply.

Devotions for Use at Home

Find prayers and devotions for personal or family use, bringing the worship and prayer of the Church into everyday life.

Friday devotions

The monthly pattern of Votive Masses

Friday evening Mass gives particular attention to important devotions and intentions within the life of the Church.

First FridayThe Sacred Heart of Jesus
Second FridayHealing Mass with laying on of hands and anointing
Third FridayOur Lady of Walsingham
Fourth FridayRequiem for the departed and monthly anniversaries
Fifth FridayPrayer for vocations

Special celebrations

Solemn worship

Incense forms part of Evensong and Benediction and is also used at Solemn High Mass on a small number of principal festivals during the year. It is not part of the ordinary weekly Parish Mass.

Word and sacrament

Why we worship

In scripture, prayer and sacrament, Christ gathers his people, nourishes them with his grace and sends them to love and serve the world.

Children and families

Children belong at Mass

Having children at our Masses is a joy. No matter how wriggly or vocal they may be, children are welcome as full members of the Body of Christ.

Parent and child areas are available in the St Cecilia Chapel at St Matthew’s and in the North Aisle at St Mary’s.

Messy Church: a creative gathering for families takes place on the third Saturday of each month, from 15:00 to 17:00 at St Mary’s, Stanwell.

Find out about Messy Church

You will be very welcome

Questions about worship may be sent to office@smam.org.uk or discussed by telephone on 01784 259093.

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